Back To School Shopping
Back-to-school shopping is a great opportunity for parents to teach their children about responsible shopping habits. Here are some tips to help keep shopping stress-free:
• Before hitting the mall, help your child go through all the clothing currently in his or her wardrobe, and clean out the outgrown and seldom-worn clothes. Either put clothing away for a younger brother or sister or donate it to charity. Then discuss what is needed to pull the back-to-school wardrobe together.
• Once you've seen what's left, ask your child identify his favorite items. "If they do wear something a lot, find out why," says Andre. "And if they didn't wear something, find out why" so that you don't make the same mistake again.
• Talk about the styles the kids will be wearing this fall. Discuss the difference between fads, classics and trends. "It's important to recognize that clothing is an expression of their youth and peer group," says Andre, but it's also important to make appropriate choices. "Kids rely on parents to be parents, not friends. And you need to let them know that showing their belly button at school is not respectful."
• Browse through a few back-to-school catalogs with your child and talk to them about the issue of "what one wants" and "what one can afford." A calm financial conversation at home is one way to avoid an emotional blow-out at the store.
• Wear comfortable walking shoes and clothes that are easy to take off and put on for fewer hassles in the dressing room.
• Take children shopping for a few hours, not the entire day. "What I've advised parents, especially those with young girls, is to let them go to the mall - then go back and help them with the purchasing," says Andre. "Let them do the window shopping, then limit the shopping time with parents to two hours." Long, shop- till-you-drop sprees usually lead to impulse buying, arguments and exhaustion.
• Avoid buying everything before school starts. Andre advises doing some shopping for the first couple of school months, when the weather is typically warmer, then shop for warmer winter clothing. Another reason to hold off on buying all at once is that once your children see what everyone else is wearing, they might have different ideas about what they like and dislike.
• Before hitting the mall, help your child go through all the clothing currently in his or her wardrobe, and clean out the outgrown and seldom-worn clothes. Either put clothing away for a younger brother or sister or donate it to charity. Then discuss what is needed to pull the back-to-school wardrobe together.
• Once you've seen what's left, ask your child identify his favorite items. "If they do wear something a lot, find out why," says Andre. "And if they didn't wear something, find out why" so that you don't make the same mistake again.
• Talk about the styles the kids will be wearing this fall. Discuss the difference between fads, classics and trends. "It's important to recognize that clothing is an expression of their youth and peer group," says Andre, but it's also important to make appropriate choices. "Kids rely on parents to be parents, not friends. And you need to let them know that showing their belly button at school is not respectful."
• Browse through a few back-to-school catalogs with your child and talk to them about the issue of "what one wants" and "what one can afford." A calm financial conversation at home is one way to avoid an emotional blow-out at the store.
• Wear comfortable walking shoes and clothes that are easy to take off and put on for fewer hassles in the dressing room.
• Take children shopping for a few hours, not the entire day. "What I've advised parents, especially those with young girls, is to let them go to the mall - then go back and help them with the purchasing," says Andre. "Let them do the window shopping, then limit the shopping time with parents to two hours." Long, shop- till-you-drop sprees usually lead to impulse buying, arguments and exhaustion.
• Avoid buying everything before school starts. Andre advises doing some shopping for the first couple of school months, when the weather is typically warmer, then shop for warmer winter clothing. Another reason to hold off on buying all at once is that once your children see what everyone else is wearing, they might have different ideas about what they like and dislike.


